小鹏
2009-04-25, 06:07 PM
圣约翰本地论坛上的，一个不负责任的女人，吸毒，不停怀孕，不教育孩子；12岁的女儿去跟男朋友同居，7岁的儿子因为盗窃而被抓.......
I don't even know where to start!
There is a girl I know, she is an alcoholic and a drug user and I'm not talking just the whacky tobacky here!! I'm talking the whacky cracky!!
She HAD 3 children. A 12 yr old girl, who she shipped off to the 12yr old's boyfriends parents to look after. A boy, who was arrested for shop lifting at the age of 7, because she was passed out drunk when he took off with a 12 yr old and made his way across town on a bus!! The 3rd child is still to come....
The father of the boy must have figured if he can't beat her join her, I guess, cuz he got into the crack with her after fighting her drunkeness for years, selling all their child's belongings, and using their complete F. All and welfare cheques to buy their crack....and eventually....they lost him to child services.
Meanwhile, they get pregnant AGAIN, if you can imagine. So there is the 3rd child....The father gets himself clean, and gets away from the mother, and has custody back of his two boys (and are doing very well)......the mother very rarely calls or tries to see them, she disappears for months at a time.....
Which brings me to the reason I am so angry......I was on a call last night with a mutual aquaintance of myself and these people. I was told that she is yet again.... Pregnant!!! (Not by the same fella)
I couldn't believe my ears!! What business does she have to be having a 4th baby? Who is going to look after this one? She hasn't looked after any of her other kids..and she's lost all she had..so I am just completely disgusted!!
I don't understand this. When I had my only daughter, I was 21. I was more or less TOLD I was going on birth control (I wasn't gonn argue!! :P) and I was not an addict of any sort, never be in trouble with the law, NOTHIN!! I see so many crack heads and even kids younger than I was, spitting out babies one after the other until they have 4 or 5 of them and then living off the system. Yet they continue to let it happen and then the cost to the tax payers..... why were they not TOLD they were going on birth control?!!!
So, now this girl is going to be birthing her 4th child, to which the system will get also, and they WILL get the child!! It's just a matter of time!!
I think, when it gets down to the point of rediculousness like in the case I have described to you, there should be a law that forces females to have their tubes tied. Actually, I also think men who insist on reproducing with every girl they sleep with, yet won't cough up for child support....screw losing their license.... They should be tied at the tip if you get my drift!!!
Then, if down the road, they decide they are ready to grow up and except resonsibility, be it by coughing up money for your children or be it they got off the drugs and have been sober for X # of years, then and ONLY then, should they be able to go in, and pay out of THEIR own pocket, and have the ties reversed. Sounds fair to me!!
Sorry for the lengthy rant, I am just so disgusted!!!
I don't even know where to start!
There is a girl I know, she is an alcoholic and a drug user and I'm not talking just the whacky tobacky here!! I'm talking the whacky cracky!!
She HAD 3 children. A 12 yr old girl, who she shipped off to the 12yr old's boyfriends parents to look after. A boy, who was arrested for shop lifting at the age of 7, because she was passed out drunk when he took off with a 12 yr old and made his way across town on a bus!! The 3rd child is still to come....
The father of the boy must have figured if he can't beat her join her, I guess, cuz he got into the crack with her after fighting her drunkeness for years, selling all their child's belongings, and using their complete F. All and welfare cheques to buy their crack....and eventually....they lost him to child services.
Meanwhile, they get pregnant AGAIN, if you can imagine. So there is the 3rd child....The father gets himself clean, and gets away from the mother, and has custody back of his two boys (and are doing very well)......the mother very rarely calls or tries to see them, she disappears for months at a time.....
Which brings me to the reason I am so angry......I was on a call last night with a mutual aquaintance of myself and these people. I was told that she is yet again.... Pregnant!!! (Not by the same fella)
I couldn't believe my ears!! What business does she have to be having a 4th baby? Who is going to look after this one? She hasn't looked after any of her other kids..and she's lost all she had..so I am just completely disgusted!!
I don't understand this. When I had my only daughter, I was 21. I was more or less TOLD I was going on birth control (I wasn't gonn argue!! :P) and I was not an addict of any sort, never be in trouble with the law, NOTHIN!! I see so many crack heads and even kids younger than I was, spitting out babies one after the other until they have 4 or 5 of them and then living off the system. Yet they continue to let it happen and then the cost to the tax payers..... why were they not TOLD they were going on birth control?!!!
So, now this girl is going to be birthing her 4th child, to which the system will get also, and they WILL get the child!! It's just a matter of time!!
I think, when it gets down to the point of rediculousness like in the case I have described to you, there should be a law that forces females to have their tubes tied. Actually, I also think men who insist on reproducing with every girl they sleep with, yet won't cough up for child support....screw losing their license.... They should be tied at the tip if you get my drift!!!
Then, if down the road, they decide they are ready to grow up and except resonsibility, be it by coughing up money for your children or be it they got off the drugs and have been sober for X # of years, then and ONLY then, should they be able to go in, and pay out of THEIR own pocket, and have the ties reversed. Sounds fair to me!!
Sorry for the lengthy rant, I am just so disgusted!!!